The third date often seems to be a* thing* in dating. Like, if you make it over that hurdle you’re in a different country of dating: it’s basically when you’ve had enough’ get to know you’ time to decide if you really like one another. This is why it’s overwhelmingly common for relationships to not progress past the said period. Over on
, some Reddit users started discussing the specific reasons why.
1 . There are some things that are totally in a woman’s control:
Let’s take a walk down the hall of disgrace 😛 TAGEND Being boring. Being stuck up. Use her telephone all the time during the course of its date. Fetishizing my Asian ethnicity( yes, it can happen to guys too ). Acting and talking arrogantly. Examining at a faraway college, and merely visiting township every now and then. She went through a recent break-up and didn’t feel ready to commit. Moving to a different city or nation. Moving to a different country. Home country was different( I gratified her while visiting that country ). Bad hygiene Boring No purpose in life She described herself as a” film and book nerd” but didn’t seem at all interested in talking about either. She was rude to the waiter for no good reason She didn’t show up for the first date and depicted up 15 minutes late for the second. In hindsight, going on the second one was a dumb idea. She seemed like she actually, genuinely, truly didn’t have any interest. Easily the most disappointing one. She was awesome, I gratified her through friends and they kept telling me she was crazy about me, but after 4 dates of not seeming interested and barely any communication outside I lost interest. Maybe it was some weird attempt at playing hard to get, but it surely did nothing for me.